Thursday, January 31, 2013

NOW'S DEAR SASHA...

            
Dear Sasha,
I’m in a happy, loving and committed relationship with a man I plan on marrying. We have excellent open communication and could use your advice about how to add some anal to our sex life.
I tried talking to my doctor about it but didn’t receive any help. He made me feel like some deviant, gave me a few pamphlets and told me it was unsafe and unsanitary!
My problem is that while I enjoy the feeling of having my ass fingered or rimmed, the second he penetrates me with his penis I’m jumping up in excruciating pain.
He says it’s no big deal and he can be perfectly happy without anal sex, but I know it’s one of his favourite acts and I’d like to be able to enjoy it with him. Are there any toys, materials or methods you can recommend? And are there possible medical reasons /circumstances that make anal impossible for certain people?

Ass Pirate Wannabe

Dear Ass,
Many people experience anal sex this way when they first set out to include it in their private adventures. The ass evolved to expel waste, but it is also an area where you can experience a lot of pleasure if you treat it with respect and care.
One of the first things I’d do is begin looking for a doctor who is more sex-positive. If your doctor believes that anal sex is primarily unsafe and unsanitary, he probably also believes that sexual expression can only exist within outdated heterosexist parameters. He will not be a good sounding board for any other explorations you may feel like embarking on in the future.
One reason why people may find anal sex difficult when they first try it is because so much fear and so many taboos surround the area. Doctors like yours don’t help when they perpetuate this idea. The anus and its corporeal allies (the digestive system, the sphincters, the anal passage) are very emotionally sensitive body parts – they react to stress almost immediately. Perhaps you’ve noticed that when you’re nervous or worried, you become constipated or you get diarrhea. The anus is like a five-year-old: you know immediately when it’s happy or unhappy.
One thing I’ve come to realize in all aspects of my life, but most particularly as it pertains to sex, is that if I am doing something for someone else, specifically as a way of securing their affection, things almost always go awry. (Oddly, this is usually made worse by a partner telling you to “do it for yourself,” not for them. Part of you always feels they are only saying this to abdicate responsibility.)
The stress you’re putting on yourself to please your partner contributes to the pain you’re feeling when he penetrates you. You want so badly to do this for him. You expect to fail.
Your anus clenches up in anticipation. You feel pain. And, yes, that pain is excruciating, so it is certainly difficult to imagine that one day it could be transformed into glorious pleasure.
I encourage you to look at anal sex as something that truly has the potential to provide you with pleasure rather than as something you must learn to bear in order to please your partner.
Get to know this part of your body. Read Anal Pleasure & Health, by Jack Morin, and The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women, by Tristan Taormino. Look for instructional videos about anal sex that focus on pleasure. Work your way up to something the size of a penis, rather than going from tongue to finger to penis. Experiment on your own with a vibrator and smaller sex toys. Don’t forget to be generous with the lubricant. And, of course, with yourself.
There are medical reasons/circumstances why anal sex is difficult or impossible for some people, yes. For example, people who suffer from chronic hemorrhoids might find anal sex an unappealing prospect, and those with IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) or Crohn’s may be uncomfortable fiddling around with their ass any more than they absolutely have to. 

 
 

DOES ANYONE ELSE SEE A SIMILARITY?



ENJOY YOUR WIN WHILE YOU CAN KATHLEEN...

...it is a tough, cruel world out here and an individual's personal baggage get's a real examination!

Unelected Hypocrite Kathleen Wynne, the Mosqueteria Candidate
Assalumu Alaikum to you, Ms. Wynne. And how odd of you, a feminist and a lesbian, to try to appeal to those who practice gender segregation.

ARE BLOGGERS ANY LESS GUILTY?

Your Moral And Intellectual Superiors

Breitbart;
1. During last year's presidential election Andrea Mitchell was caught manufacturing a Romney gaffe where none existed.
2. During last year's GOP primary, Ed Schultz edited video of Texas Governor Rick Perry to make him look racist.
3. In April of last year, the "Today Show" was caught editing audio of a 9-1-1 call to make George Zimmerman look racist.
4. In August of 2009, Contessa Brewer sliced and diced a photograph so it wouldn't look like a black man attended a Tea Party carrying a firearm.
And just today, NBC was caught in yet another malicious edit, this time to make Second Amendment advocates look as though they did something as heinous as heckling the heartsick father of a child who lost his six-year-old son in the Sandy Hook massacre.
Now that the fraud is intrenched in the mainstream: MSNBC is "reviewing" how that tape was edited...
h/t chutzpahticular
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LATEST PARENTAL BUZZWORD

What should helicopter parents really be teaching their kids? Failure 

NDP TAKING THEIR AGENDA GLOBAL?


WHY IS THIS BEING DEBATED IN THE MEDIA

...when it should have been debated at Toronto Silly Hall?

‘This is clearly the best deal for the TTC’: Gateway Newstands defends controversial sole-sourced deal


Gateway said it welcomed the "political and media scrutiny" that has ensued since the TTC opted to extend its lease agreements for subway newsstands to 2022

IF YOU WANT TO BE INFORMED

...and aware of what is happening at Queen's Park BOOKMARK 

CANADA'S GORE WANNABE...SUZUKI?

David Suzuki is poster boy for why Canada needs Sun's hater brand of journalism


Jonathan Kay: Sun uncovered emails revealing odd demands Suzuki made in regard to a 2012 visit to John Abbott College, including for a couple of lady ‘body...

WHAT WILL BE HER BALL BREAKER...

Keep up pressure to fight transit gridlock: Editorial.


Hepburn: A 7-step recovery program for Ontario Liberals

Kathleen Wynne should take fast action on welfare reform: Editorial

 
Incoming Ontario premier Kathleen Wynne is open to tolls to ease gridlock. Good. When Metrolinx releases its recommendations, she can make them real. (Let's not forget The Star supported McGoonty and basically gave him a free ride. To Wynnes credit it looks like Xtra might be here champion)
 
 

THE WYNNE AGENDA?

...or is this just an attempt by the "McVetys" to get some media attention and that's fine but sadly I wouldn't bet that Wynne doesn't try to bring back her preference for what your kids should be learning at school.
Wynne's Approach To Education!

McVety worried Wynne will bring back Liberal's sex ed plan

Kathleen Wynne’s special mission

 

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

STANDARD LEFTWING SOLUTION TO PROBLEMS...

but take heart. Barack can always go on Oprah and do HIS Armstrong impression!

BIGGEST LOSERS ARE YOU AND I

THE GOOD NEWS...

 
 
THE BAD NEWS...
 


AND NOT $1 WILL GO INTO TORONTO COFFERS...

...Adam Vaughan and his cohorts don't get the message!

Bet on it: Gaming and gambling will converge on social media 
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Get ready for Facebookie. As gaming and gambling converge, it won’t be long before people are placing bets on the social media site or through apps on iPads. Facebook, a common platform around the...

MARCHING TO MARX

The NDP's Apartheid Ruminations

If there were a referendum in Canada, asking whether all citizens should be treated equally or whether one group should have extraordinary powers and hold a veto over everyone else's wishes, how might that vote turn out?
One thus has to wonder why Thomas Mulcair and the NDP are toying around with the idea of a future Canada divided along ethnic lines?
NDP_Apartheid.JPG
John Ivison examines the strange happenings in the NDP "braintrust" in Ottawa. He also discusses the issue with Charles Adler. David Akin and Brian Lilley also discuss it here.
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WYNNE VS BLACK


...liberals are not know for their public confrontational skills!

AT LEAST THE STAR IS CONSISTENT...

In selecting Kathleen Wynne, Ontario Liberals flash a rare display of political genius


...they got Dulltoon McGoonty elected and supported him in virtually every screwup and now they are offering advice to Wynne!

Editorial Opinion

HMMM!

...Ruby/Magder might want to get on their high horses and take the TTC chair into the courts.

Company offers to pay $4.5M more to run newsstands than contract accepted by TTC


A newspaper, magazine and confection retailer has submitted a counter-proposal to run Toronto’s subway newsstands for $4.5-million more than the sole-sourced agreement accepted by the transit commission

YOU CAN START HERE WYNNE...

...and then explain your eliminating the three R's in schools in favour of social in-activism liberally sprinkled with sexual orientation projects!

Why Ontarians deserve a public inquiry into McGuinty's $240-million power plant fiasco


Kelly McParland: The power plant cancellation details the NDP seeks could devastate the Ontario Liberals just like the sponsorship scandal did the federal party

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

TWO GROUPS THAT SHAPE YOUR PRESENT AND FUTURE...

 Hey Kathleen...
...twits twittering!

Doesn't this just make you want to hug a politician? CAUTION: when they start turning red let go...it is no longer hugging but strangling!

POSSIBLE BIAS AT rabble.ca

 

What's The Opposite Of Diversity?

University!

Foundation for Individual Rights in Education (FIRE), revealed that 62 percent of the 409 colleges reviewed have written policies in place to limit a student's right to free speech.
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DRUG TESTING FOR IOC LONG OVERDUE!

Next year’s calendars will be for the year “2013+1″ to avoid paying the IOC a licensing fee

Just when you think the depths of idiocy have been fully plumbed, there’s the International Olympic Committee to prove you wrong:

The long, sad shadow of Dalton McGuinty

Andrew Coyne: Kathleen Wynne's sexual orientation will prove the least of her worries when the legislature returns


Her supporters are offering congrats...

SVEND ROBINSON Wynne’s victory ‘a tremendous signal of hope and empowerment’

Hmm...ESTRANGED MALES FLEE TO QUEBEC?



NO IDN PROTESTORS IN Tuktoyaktuk and Aklavik

Idle No More: The view from the (far, far) North

 A Canadian Inuit leader explains the unique concerns of Canada’s indigenous Arctic communities

NDP JUMPING ON GET NATIVE VOTE BANDWAGON

NDP First Nations bill shows the party’s struggle to appear credible


John Ivison: Saganash’s private member’s bill could give powers to First Nations over most legislation in Canada. Does the NDP really want to deal with that?

Did Saganash read the UN resolution...Article 19 says states must obtain the “free, prior and informed consent” of indigenous people before implementing legislation that may affect them.
Since all natives are, like it or not, legally Canadian citizens just about every piece of legislation passed by Parliament affects them.

Is it possible the NDP haven't heard of the Metis...

Métis have long fared better than status Indians, so why do they want to be treated the same?
The mystery is why the Métis would want the government’s attention, as evidence suggests Canada’s attempts to oversee aboriginal people have been disastrous

Monday, January 28, 2013

"ROSIE THE RIVETER" GETS NEW ENSEMBLE!


HACKING YOUR FORTE?

January 28, 2013

Anthropology of the hacker community

Filed under: History, Media, Technology — Tags: , , , , — Nicholas @ 09:17
ESR reviews a new book about hackers:
My usual audience is well aware why I am qualified to review Gabriella Coleman’s book, Coding Freedom, but since I suspect this post might reach a bit beyond my usual audience I will restate the obvious. I have been operating as the hacker culture’s resident ethnographer since around 1990, consciously applying the techniques of anthropological fieldwork (at least as I understood them) to analyze the operation of that culture and explain it to others. Those explanations have been tested in the real world with large consequences, including helping the hacker culture break out of its ghetto and infect everything that software touches with subversive ideas about open processes, transparency, peer review, and the power of networked collaboration.

read more... 

LEST WE FORGET

January 27, 2013

THIS BLOG ADDRESSES THIS ISSUE

and has for years!

Doug Saunders: Immigrants’ children find multiculturalism obsolete

A WOONERF DESCRIPTION

...will kids be able to play street hockey? Will hookers ply their trade? Will I be able to get nourishment other than hot dogs?

Info Booth: What exactly is a woonerf, anyway?


Waterfront Toronto has begun construction on Toronto’s first woonerf in the West Don Lands. But, wait ... what’s a woonerf?

NDP SPEAK WITH FORKED TONGUE?


Thomas Mulcair promotes an odious species of ‘federalism’

Conrad Black: Mulcair grovels to French Quebec racists, while claiming to be a successful federalist. He must not be allowed to get away with this monstrous canard

POLITICAL REALITY

Ontario opposition parties have little to gain by propping up Wynne

Kelly McParland: It might not be fair to hold Wynne responsible for the Liberal mess, but the party must be accountable for its actions, and she's holding the bag

FIRST NATION NEGOTIATOR WAITING IN WINGS...


Sunday, January 27, 2013

And The WINNER Is...


...not the majority of Ontarians!

Walkom: Next Ontario premier Kathleen Wynne inherits a heap of trouble
Published on Sunday January 27, 2013 

...and the losers!                         

Kathleen Wynne has tasted the sweet cup of victory. She may find it a poisoned chalice.
Ontario’s premier-designate inherits a Liberal government enmeshed in scandal and tarred by controversy.
As hundreds of delegates inside Toronto’s old Maple Leaf Gardens cheered the winner of Saturday’s Liberal leadership contest, thousands of protesters outside added a cold dash of reality.
Regardless of who leads it, this is a party — and a government — in deep, deep trouble.
The Liberals are at war with the province’s teachers. If Wynne sticks to the position she supported as a minister in Dalton McGuinty’s cabinet — a position that demands serious spending cuts in order to balance the province’s books — that war will be difficult to end.
More important, this is a government that, in crucial areas, has demonstrated terminal incompetence.
At base, the scandal around the air ambulance service, ORNGE, boils down to one fact: The Liberals allowed a Crown agency to spend public money wildly and perhaps improperly.
Similarly, the controversy over cancelled power plant projects — and the costs incurred — resulted from a singularly cavalier attitude toward public funds.
In Ontario, managerial competence matters. Once a government is deemed incapable of running the store, it is doomed — no matter how charming the leader. Former New Democratic Premier Bob Rae could testify to that
Indeed, governments anywhere can reach a point of no return.
Kim Campbell found that out when she took over the federal Conservatives from Brian Mulroney in 1993.
At the time of her leadership victory Campbell was a celebrity, lauded at home and abroad as a bold new face.
London’s Sunday Times called her a “pin-up prime minister.” The Washington Times referred to her as “Canada’s Madonna.”
Public opinion polls showed her far ahead of her Liberal rival, Jean Chrétien.
Yet when the inevitable election was called, Campbell’s Conservatives went down to stunning defeat. She lost her own seat; only two Tory MPs survived.
In part, Campbell was at fault. But in part, she never had a chance. After almost nine years of Mulroney, the party she represented was just too unpopular.
Nor is Campbell the only example of a leader who went down to ignominious defeat after taking over a party on the skids.
Rita Johnston suffered the same fate in 1991 after being elected to succeed disgraced British Columbia premier Bill Vander Zalm as head of the governing Social Credit Party.
John Turner took over the federal Liberals from Pierre Trudeau in 1984 — only to go down to defeat in the general election a few months later.
After 15 years of Trudeau, the voters were simply sick of Liberals.
In 2002, Ernie Eves inherited the leadership of the Ontario Conservatives from Mike Harris. Then he went on to lose the next election, a casualty, in part, of his predecessor’s take-no-prisoners approach to government.
So Wynne has quite a challenge ahead of her.
A new leader can rejuvenate a party. That’s what happened to the federal Liberals in 1968, when Trudeau took over from a tired Lester Pearson.
Ontario’s provincial Tories held onto power for more than four decades — in part because they replaced their leader every few years.
But in today’s Ontario, Wynne faces a Herculean task. She knows that. As she told delegates in her victory speech: “This was the easy part.”
And she is, for the Liberals, a logical choice. The new leader is bright and witty. She was a solid minister. Her speech Saturday was by the far the best. She presents herself as a classic Liberal — fiscally tough, socially compassionate.
But a lot of Ontarians are fed up with the Liberals.
Wynne will try to convince these voters that she is not Dalton McGuinty. But at the same time she must embrace him — as she did physically on the stage of Maple Leaf Gardens Saturday night.
It is difficult to see how she can escape that embrace.
Inside the Gardens, the delegates talked of change and renewal.
Outside, I suspect, Ontarians still view them as the same old Liberals

Dealing With Rex Murphy


...and his machine gun verbage!

Obama Getting Ready to Deal With...


...with one of the major gun problems in the USA.

Silly Hall and Comedy Network

Things You'll Never Hear on the CBC

Toronto's civic politics seems to be sabotaged at every turn by left-wing "activists" who have perfected the act of pouting better than a 3-year old whose mother took away his lollipop. Roy Green discusses the dysfunctional situation with Toronto City Councillors Doug Ford and Doug Holyday.

Related: In case you missed it, Christie Blatchford provided an hilarious & biting summary of yesterday's good news for Mayor Rob Ford. h/t bluetech
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GI GO...

Rally to restore rights and democracy in Ontario draws over 25,000 protesters

| Jan 27 2013 | John Bonnar |

More than 25,000 people from over 100 community groups and labour unions came together in Allan Gardens to protest cuts to social programs and the assault on workers’ rights.

Gary Clement


Pay Attention Ruby and Magder, Vaughan, Mihevic, et al.

Ten reasons to be grateful for the decision in the Rob Ford case even if you don't love and adore the mayor


Christie Blatchford: With two of his three legal matters now done, perhaps we will be spared for a time the sight of Mayor Rob Ford attempting to be statesmanlike

Silly Hall


Don't Gamble Unless You Have The $$$s

Magder and Ruby couldn't find any other champions to take up the cause???


Rob Ford verdict chilling effect: Can you afford to fight City Hall?

Friday, January 25, 2013

A Loser...


A WINNER

.WILL ALWAYS TRIUMPH OVER A WHINER .Get the message spence, vaughan, mihevic, stinz, and the rest of you leftists.


      
Here is the  divisional court decision that allows Mayor Rob Ford to remain in office.


Mayor Rob Ford wins appeal, lawyer will try appeal to Supreme Court

A subdued, “humbled” Mayor Rob Ford promised today to push forward with his plans for the city “for the next six years” in the wake of his acquittal on appeal of conflict charges. 
Rob Ford’s victory ends an unprecedented period of uncertainty at City Hall — and averts an unprecedented period of upheaval. The appeal panel ruled that the judge who made the November ruling, Regional Senior Justice Charles Hackland, erred significantly. (229)
 
 

Rob Ford to remain Toronto's mayor as court overturns ruling

Toronto Mayor Rob Ford has been spared his job by a panel of Divisional Court judges that overturned a ruling he should be tossed out of office

Toronto mayor's victory deals bitter blow to Rob Ford-hating elite

Kelly McParland: The mayor's opponents would have been quick to council leniency for a more sympathetic figure. But in this case, 'the law is the law'
 

After Rob Ford's legal victory, Toronto's humiliated left has a front-row seat to watch the mayor's influence grow

Terence Corcoran: What will they do? The massed forces of the Toronto Spring, the media-leftist agglomeration had convinced itself they had Rob Ford on the ropes
 

 
 
 
 

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